How he met the girl of his dreams!

Congratulations Mark!!!

Dear Mike,

It has been almost a year since I took your course and I can’t even begin to tell you how my life has changed in that year.  I had always been one of those guys who did “ok” with women but never really understood what was happening or why.  Your course shed light on the female mind in a way that guys can understand and it has completely changed the way I relate to women.  I can now understand what is happening when I’m interacting with a woman in the moment as well as look back at previous interactions and understand why they went well or where I can improve.  The only way I can describe your course is as a TREMENDOUS learning experience.  It is about time that men take back the power in relationships and your course teaches exactly how.  I learned how to read a woman and then how to approach her based on that read.  If any guy is on the fence about taking your course I would say that their love life will only benefit.  In the past year I’ve been able to get dates almost at will, I’ve experienced a sexual abundance like never before as well as a deeper confidence in myself because now I have an understanding of my love life.  As many guys can imagine, becoming successful with women and dating can help blow through a lifetime of built up insecurities.  As a result of your course I never have to worry about getting a date, being alone and in addition I’ve been able to grow a lot as an individual.  Your course was unbelievable!  I would just like to say thank you for helping have one of the best years of my life. I’ve dated more women in the last 12 months than my entire life combined.

Sincerely,

Mark from San Francisco

Note from Mike Kollin: Mark has 2 Masters Degrees from U.C. Berkeley in Psychology and Communication, and is a highly intelligent Bay area-Professional working in the Therapy/Counseling Field working with Children and also Working in the Professional Securities Field.

Meeting cute women is easy!

Ok, does this title shock you? hahaha…

Author: Mike Kollin 415 456 8558
Dating and Relationship Expert

http://mikekollin.com

TODAY I AM GOING TO GIVE YOU SOME POWERFUL DATING,
RELATIONSHIP AND SEXUAL TIPS THAT MASSIVELY TURN WOMEN ON AND MAKE WOMEN CHASE YOU!

Well, here’s the deal. The female mating system literally has the need to chase you! Women have something, that I call the Cat and Mouse game hard wired or built neurologically in them. And they can’t help it! hahahaha…

Have you ever heard women say, “Men need a Challenge?” hehe… See, nothing and I mean nothing could be further from the truth. If a hot girl comes up to us and wants to have sex, we are not going to turn her down!

So what’s really going on?

See, what women are doing is something we call in Psychology, “Projection”. And women do it a lot and that’s why men completely misunderstand women in every way! hahaha…

See, what’s going on, is she is hard wired to look for a challenge and once she finds a challenge, she will lock on like a pit-bull and will never let go and will even, literally fight to the death to keep that challenge.

Have you ever seen 2 girls fight to the death over a guy? That’s why? He was a massive challenge and the 2 girls will literally do anything to get him! And I mean anything!

So, do you want to learn how to get girls or women to do anything and I mean anything for you and to lock on to pleasing you like a Pit Bull locking on to a challenge? Even be willing to fight intensely for you and over you? hahaha…

Now here are some amazingly powerful secrets and tricks. And here’s the funny thing. If you don’t do these things, women will be bored with you and lose all respect for you. So, it’s your choice. You can either be the guy that girls cook and clean for and make wild passionate, erotic and kinky sex with and will do whatever it takes to please you, or you can be that guy who’s girl wouldn’t even think of fighting over let alone doing anything for you; who’s already looking for a better boyfriend who is a challenge, and is currently cheating on. Or you can Be That Guy all girls find to be a Challenge!

Well? Are you ready?

Be a Damn Challenge Already!

Ok, so what in the hell does that mean and how do I do that? hehe…

#1 Do not just give up sex to a girl.

A. She has to earn it. Yes, I am dead serious. She has to cook a meal or buy you gifts, give you a real massage, not some 5 minute stroke to get you turned on. NO!!! Screw that! Make her earn it. Yes, I am serious. Women innately do not respect men who are push overs or who will do anything for her to get sex or love or respect.

The truth! She must earn your respect. If she doesn’t earn your Love, attention, sex, then she see’s you as of low value. Get it?

Now I can hear all the low self esteem guys and social wimps whining and complaining right now. You think that if you are submissive to hear and buy her everything and do her bidding, she will suddenly love you and respect you and make wild passionate love to you! Well, I have 1 question for you? How well is that working for you? Well?

See, people with High Self Respect and who have boundaries and stand firm on those boundaries are the ones who get what they want out of life, including Love, Respect and sexual pleasure.

Now, I use to go to therapy and am highly involved in personal development. The reason I bring this up, is because every psychology class, teacher, therapist and personal development coach has a high focus on you having Healthy Boundaries and Self Respect.

So, is this a bad thing? Hell no! This is a very, very good thing and fortunately, it turns her on massively.

But, to guys who are use to playing the submissive role and buying her things and paying for stuff who don’t get sex or that rich millionaires wife who left him for me, cry and whine and go out and get 2 jobs so they can buy a nicer car and pay for more expensive dinners and gifts until they work themselves to the bone only to find out she has no respect for him!

We call these guys suckers! And so do women!

So stop being a weak sucker and stand your ground. Yes, you deserve respect and love and admiration and yes, sex! So many men think that women are Gods or something and can’t figure out why women don’t have sex with them or Love them! You have to Love yourself and stand firm on your boundaries and stop giving in so damn easily, make her earn it and prove to you that she deserves it!

When she comes over, ask her to pick you up something from the store. Ask her to massage your feet or back. Ask her to rent a Movie. Ask her to cook dinner for you. Or ask her to make a picnic and choose a spot to have lunch. She loves this.

Yeah, I can hear some of you already. You think this is wrong or bad. Wrong! Let me ask you a question. Do you do nice things for her? Does she ask you to pick up things on the way over to her place? Does she ask for massages and other things? What? You say yes? Well then what in the hell is wrong with her also doing nice things for you too? Well?

See, our society has raised women to expect men to do for them and men to just give and give and give and expect nothing in return! First of all women don’t respect this on a deep level and will lose attraction quickly. Another thing that wills shock most men is that when you first meet a girl, she usually will want to cook, clean and do things for you, but what do most modern men do.

They take way her joy! Yes, he will say things like, “Oh sweetie, you don’t have to do that for me.” Or, “Don’t worry, I will do the dishes later, you dont’ have to do that for me.” So what did you just do? You literally took away her joy, her pride to do for her man! You told her that you are not worthy and are a lower male who doesn’t deserve good things. Thus she gets sad inside because the man who she was proud of and wanted to look up to suddenly lowered himself in her eyes. Now she can’t show of her prize, her King, her Man to her girlfriends and sisters.

B. Now this one is huge, massive, extremely-dangerously powerful!

If you really like this girl and you are on your first date with her and possibly see her as a long term relationship, do not have sex! Yes, that’s right. See, if you have sex with her, she will lose all respect for you and suddenly lose all sexual or personal interest in you!

Now why is this? Well, what did I say above?

“WOMEN ARE LOOKING FOR A CHALLENGE.”

So damn it, show her that you are worth it. Show her that you are not easy and not desperate! See, a guy who has dated a lot of women and can literally meet a new girl and lead her successfully into the bedroom for sex on a daily or at least weekly basis, suddenly doesn’t rush into having sex with a total stranger.

I’ll tell you why. Because over time, he has met his fair share of psycho women who are controlling or demanding or who flat out don’t respect him. And the kind of guy who has self respect doesn’t let women do this to him. So, he has learned there are a lot of games some women play. And if he has a lot of choice with women, he would never in a million years suddenly jump into bed with a girl who he doesn’t know.

Again, this is her “Projecting” her thoughts onto you! hahaha… Get it. See, this is the way that women think, not men!

See, by not having sex with her on the very first date or the first time you get her into an intimate situation, ie home alone at night, you are literally saying, “I don’t know you and you might be a pain in the ass or a bitch or a psycho or someone who is out for themselves and I am looking for a girl who values me.

C. Now this one is just as powerful as the one before.

So lets say you have gone on a date or 3 dates with her and maybe the 4th or 5th date, you do have sex. Ok, fine. Now what?

Now the next time you go out, bring your buddies and friends and literally enjoy everyone’s company. Don’t totally focus solely on her and make her the center of attention, because that shows that you don’t have a life and are lucky to have finally caught a girl let alone a quality girl. Get it, if you do this, it shows her you are of low value and can’t get other girls. And trust me, nothing is more of a sexual turn off than a guy going on and on and on about how Beautiful she is and paying for things, etc. etc.

Yeah, I know, you were just trying to honor her and show her how much you like her. Well my friend, if you were dealing with a guy, this would work magnificently, but unfortunately we are dealing with the female brain and the female mating system and it works much, much differently!

So, what you do is, go out, have a great time, bring her home and bring 1 or 2 or a group of your friends and hang out, watch a movie, etc. etc. Have fun with the group.

And then when everyone goes home, “DON’T Have sex with her! hahahahah.. This will massively, massively make her want to earn your sex and love you! Dont’ even make out with her.

What will drive her even more crazy, is go to bed and if she joins you, don’t’ have sex, nothing! hahahaha….

See, she is so used to guys chasing her and that is a major turn off! And now all of a sudden, you are barely showing any interest in her. This will shock her system and make her prove to you that she is worth it! That she is of high value and damn it, she is going to lock on like a Pit Bull and cook and clean and massage you and chase off all hte other girls and when you do finally have sex, she will do whatever it takes to show you that she is good in bed! hehehe… see, I told you this stuff was tricky! hahahaha…

D. Now after you have dated her for a few weeks and maybe had sex 2 times, continue to deny her sex…

E.. Now this one will shock the shit out of you. Now in the first month of dating, go out to clubs or invite friends over or out to clubs with you. Now remember, some of these friends are other females who are highly interested in you because you have read this blog before and have also denied them sex.

You bring these 2 or 3 girls all together at a club or your house party or your friends and watch the sparks fly! hahahahahaha…

Now here’s the deal. What you are showing her is that you have choice. And a man who has his choice of females is the guy who she wants to keep, marry and hold onto forever! Now this is what makes a marraige and relationship last and keeps her happy because she has captured her Hero, her Knight in Shining Armor.

God Bless you all! Best Wishes and may the Happiness and Love Flow in your lives and all relationships!

Understanding the opposite sex is possible once you know how!

Sincerely, Mike Kollin

Author: Mike Kollin 415 456 8558
Dating and Relationship Expert

http://mikekollin.com

Now, when you are communicating to someone and want them to see things in a certain light or in the way that you want them to see it, all you have to do is use what I call Directional Languaging. And it’s real simple. In fact, you use it every single time you talk or even think. So the question is how well or bad are you using it?

Here’s what you do.

#1 You think of what you want the person or people to think about and picture, feel and hear inside their head. Like Peace, Love, comfortable or buy this now or see yourself enjoying this thoroughly and understanding this teaching easily as it opens up!

Because the way people operate is unconsciously. 97% of the time or more we are completely and or totally unconscious. Yes, that is an actual fact. That’s another discussion though.

Even people who mediate and work on Consciousness are only conscious 15% of the time, maybe a little more depending on the person and how good they are at it. And they are merely conscious of what they are being conscious of in the moment. hahaha… And that is where this little hypnotic technique comes in. Watch how unconsciously conscious you have been using this your entire life and yet had no clue!

So, when I am talking to someone, I take them in the direction I want them to go or think/see/imagine in their head. And it’s super easy.

So if I am working with an Athlete and they are doing somethign wrong, odds are, it’s because a coach was using this in the bad way and was telling them what not to do…. Ugh! So bad!

Look coaches, don’t tell then what not to do, tell them what you want them to do, because the unconscious mind which runs our entire system, especially when in combat situations or fast paced sports, will do exactly whatever the image is you put into their mind.

Like in Wrestling, the worst thing you can tell a wrestler to do is “Don’t lift your arm!!!” So what does the wrestler automatically do? He lifts his damn arm and his oponnent grabs it and pins him!

So instead, you say, “Keep your arm tucked” or “Keep your arms down”.

Get it, it’s that simple.

So when I am talking to a girl, I say things like Safe, comfortable, warm, relaxed and fluid, etc.

What a lot of guys will do is think about not scaring this new girl he is on a date with… I have even heard guys say, “You are not afraid of me are you?” or, “You are not uptight are you?” Or “You’re not mad at me are you?”

See, in order for the girl to understand what he just said, she has to think nad picture what he just said. So words and images of Being Afraid of him go through her mind or Uptight, mad at him, etc.

See, do this. No matter what I say, absolutely do not thin of a “pink elephant!” hahaha…

So what do you have to think of in order to simply understand that sentence? Yep, a pink elephant.

#2 NEGATIONS – Now a Negations is exactly like the Pink Elephant story!

No matter what I say, don’t think of a Pink elephant. See, in order for your unconscious mind to understand the sentence, it has to think of a pink elephant. In fact, the unconscious mind can not process a negative.

So no matter what you say, the unconscious mind thinks of it or does it.
“Don’t lift up your arm!” The kid lifts up his arm.
“Don’t slow down.” The athlete slows down!

or heres a good one. “don’t’ feel bad!” hahaha… what are they immediately going to feel and imagine? Yep, feeling bad!

So when you say to a girl, “Do not feel comfortable with me now!” hehe… she has to imagine feeling comfortable with you now!

Or, here’s a good one…. Hey, hey, hey, this is not a sexual affair here! I don’t’ want you to see me and imagine me in a naturally sexual way that makes you feel totally and completely comfortable with me now!

hahaha… Get it, see it? I am using negations and saying or telling them what not to do, so they will do it and feel it and imagine it.

Look, I don’t want you to totally and completely grasp this and understand all of this right now as 1 simple little technique I am going over now. Because that would be way to easy to learn and understand and see how this works fully and completely! No, don’t do that!

How many times have you told someone what you don’t want them to do and they went right ahead and did the exact thing you told them not to do?

This works great for teachers who are teaching kids effective communication skills. And it works to turn women on or help them to feel calm, relaxed comfort with you, so they can calm down and melt into your arms and connect with you now!

See, the only difference between you and myself, is that I will purposely use a negation in a way that takes you in the direction that I want you to go in. And fortunately for you, that is a very good direction to go in to help you get everything and more of what you want like happiness, love, wealth, success and all the joy you can handle!

So don’t think that this very, very simple, easy and very powerfully effective tool will lead you into everything that you want inside! hehe… yes, I just did it… see how easy that was… all I did is put 1 single word in front of an entire sentence of everything I wanted you to do, think, picture, think, hear and even smell and taste if I wanted to… hahaha..

The negation word is “don’t” and all the directionalizing words are

very simple, easy, powerful, effective, lead you into everything you wanted,

Another way of saying this, is “Say it the way you want it, so they will picture in the way that you want them to see things!”

See, before I mentioned it, you were probably not imagining the smell of freshly toasted perfect cinnamon toast or even noticing how hungry your belly is and I bet you were not thinking of the back of your left elbow before I mentioned it.

My point, is this tool is extremely simple, but very, very powerful.

So next time you are in a situation and you want results in your direction, “say it the way you want it!”

Look honey, I am not saying that this is an easy and comfortable conversations at all… You might or you might not be able to comfortably come to an agreement with yourself and realize how all of a sudden a new world of possiblities just opened up to you, so you can gain all the clarity, power and undersanding you need to take these conversations in the direction that you really want them to go. because, that would be way to easy!

And you know what that means? If people would simply listen to understand each other all of a sudden they would see the light on how to communicate in a way that the other person easily and effortlessly enjoys and likes what they are saying….

So instead of telling that kid to not eat the cake, tell him how amazingly delicious this smoothy is and how it will make him feel powerful inside so he can lift 1000 pounds.

So instead of telling that 5 year old kindergartner not to touch the chalk board, tell him or her to focus on the space between their toes and how funny it is that their feet perfectly go together when walking without ever thinking about it. And trust me, that’s all they will notice or think about. The chalk board and not touching the chalk board will not even come to mind.

Now that’s unconscious!

Say either A. Say it the way you want it.

Or B. Say what you don’t want if you want them to do what you don’t want!

Ok, so I bet a few of you reading this now honestly are not completely clear on what you just learned unconsciously right?

Ok, fine. Now re read the main segment I put in part I.

All you say is, “Hey, it’s totally or completely ok if you don’t agree with me or believe what I am saying?” “All I ask, is that you actually listen to what I am saying, and understand what I am saying.” “As long as you listen to understand what i am saying and you actually understand what I am saying, then I am totally ok if you don’t agree with what I am saying or believe me.” “That’s totally cool.” “As long as we are on the same page and you understand me, then that’s all I ask!”

“If you understand what I am saying, then it’s totally cool if you still don’t agree with me or believe what I am saying, ok?”

NOW, HERE’S WHAT I REALLY JUST SAID AND IN HYPNOSIS TERMS, COMMANDED:

a. totally or completely ok.
b. agree with me
c. believe what I am saying
d. All I ask softens it
e. actually listen to what I am saying
f. understand what I am saying
g. actually understand what I am saying
h. totally ok
i. agree with what I am saying
j. believe me
k. That’s totally cool
l. we are on the same page
m. you understand me
n. that’s all I ask

o. understand what I am saying
p. it’s totally cool
q. agree with me
r. believe what I am saying
s. ok

(I am actually telling you this, rather your unconscious, I’m not asking at all, but with the negations above in the actual sentences, it sounds like I am merely suggesting it or politely asking. But in fact, I am telling you, commanding you what to do, think, believe, hear and feel) Yeah, devious huh? hahahaha… Ok, I am evil, a little bit, but I am really on your side… hahahaha…

Now next time you listen to Obama or your other fearless leaders, really listen to what they are saying. yes, they are all highly trained in Hypnosis and powerful influence technologies.

The only way you / we can take back this country is by learning this technology so when someone uses it on us, we can fight back!

Or we can use it to have a lot of fun and get more of what we want!
Hey, it’s your choice!

For the most powerful training in Communication, influence, Love and fun, give me a call: 415 456 8558

I will teach you what the Masters Refuse to teach you!

If you think this is powerful, I assure you, this is the simplest, easiest teaching out there. In my courses I will continually teach you what no one else will teach! I will pull the curtain back and show you what’s really going on and how to use it effectively!

I hope you enjoyed this little show here!

Now say it the way you want it!

COMMUNICATION IS MY ART – LOVE IS MY PASSION

WELCOME TO CONSCIOUSNESS

Meeting cute women is easy!

Now, first of all, most people suck at listening, but don’t even know it. In fact, I think this is going to shock you and open you up to what listening actually is. That is part II.

Now, have you ever had a conversation where the person you were talking to wasn’t actually listening to or even on the same page as you? And no matter what you said, they kept trying to say you were saying B. and yet you were adamantly saying A.

Well, here’s what’s going! Most people try to force their beliefs or values or opinions onto others and so over time, most people by the time they are teenagers and into adulthood put an automatic I have to defend myself shield up or I am going to think 3 steps ahead of you to prove I am right. And thus the war begins! And Zero Listening happens. Because if you are someone is thinking of what they are going to say next or 3 steps ahead, then they aren’t listening to you at all. In fact they aren’t listening at all, zero, because they can’t if they are too busy thinking and planning what they are going to say!

#1 So, here’s what you do!!! (It’s sooooooooo Easy!!!)

All you say is, “Hey, it’s totally or completely ok if you don’t agree with me or believe what I am saying?” “All I ask, is that you actually listen to what I am saying, and understand what I am saying.” “As long as you listen to understand what i am saying and you actually understand what I am saying, then I am totally ok if you don’t agree with what I am saying or believe me.” “That’s totally cool.” “As long as we are on the same page and you understand me, then that’s all I ask!”

“If you understand what I am saying, then it’s totally cool if you still don’t agree with me or believe what I am saying, ok?”

First of all, they will always say, sure, absolutely. And if you pay attention and watch closely, they will totally relax and may actually grin or smile in relief. And maybe take a deep relaxing breath, because now they know you are not trying to change them or force a belief on them. And then suddenly the doorway to listening opens wide open.

You will absolutely be shocked at how powerful this simple, easy technique is. And all of a sudden your conversations will go smoothly and easily, because now they don’t feel pressure and will…. (Now this one is AWESOME!!!) They will actually suddenly be absolutely curious and fascinated with what you are about to say and listen quietly and intently as if something amazing is about to be revealed!

And Suddenly, you will become the Communication Master! Now if you add on part #2, you will be the communication master!

Now, like I alluded to above many, many people have no clue what listening skills are. It’s so funny when they talk about listening skills yet don’t actually have a clue what that means…..

Well, here is what listening skills actually are.

All you have to do is “SHUT UP!!!” hahahaha… I am serious.

Now what do I really mean?

I mean, stop thinking completely! Zero! Now, how do you do this…

#1 You realize, you don’t’ have to believe anything this person is saying to you. But,
#2 It is your responsibility only to listen to understand! Write that down!

Listen to Understand

So what does that mean? That means you have to

A. Stop that Chatter upstairs in your head. Go completely blank inside and listen to receive! This makes people feel listened to and cared about. No matter how much you care for someone, if you interrupt them or are thinking 3 steps ahead, it makes them feel like you don’t give a damn about what they are expressing and sharing to you. And what’s more important to a person than what they are expressing? Answer: Nothing! If you don’t listen to understand, you are going to be in hot water. Now this is something that most men have a huge problem with, because men are fixers and are always rushing ahead to try to fix the problem… And many times, if not almost always, she doesn’t want you to fix her or her problem at all… in facts, many times, it’s already fixed. She just needs a friend to understand what she is going through. If you are not listening to understand her feelings and or emotions and what she thinks and is experiencing, then you have just completely blew it big time! So:

B. Stop thinking about what you are going to say next and just simply shut up inside and go completely blank so you can actually #1 Receive what they are saying to you and #2 So you can Actually Listen to Understand.

Now for those of you, probably all of you, who need help with slowing down the chatter upstairs and quieting the mind to the point of going completely blank when you need to Received someones Communication and Expressions and “LISTEN TO UNDERSTAND” what is most nearest and dearest to their hearts, is

Meditation, Peripheral Vision and Internal Awareness!

Meditation is a practice of quieting the mind and there are tons of techniques. But, the basic premises is to get quiet and stop thinking. See how long you can go until there literally is zero chatter. Now this may take a lot of practice, but 45 minutes to 1 1/2 hours a day will be fine. Or even if you only pray for 20 minutes or so. yes, Prayer is and can be a deep form of meditation.

And, while meditating, you will catch yourself thinking and having this internal dialogue which leads to the Last step Internal Awareness. So with meditation you are already doing the 3rd step. So, when you catch yourself chattering about something inside your head, just let it go… that’s right, simply let it float away…. and when something else come up, all you do is be aware of it, notice it and let it float away… simply by being aware of it and noticing… over time, this will get slower and slower and slower as you go deeply into a conscious trance, deep, deep within…

As Jesus was Famous for saying, “Look Within”. And as Buddha teaches, The Divine within… Look within…

Peripheral Vision for Internal Awareness

Now Peripheral vision is when you don’t narrow your focus but rather broaden it and notice what is on the periphery. If you don’t know what that means, then look up that word now!!! The periphery is the outside circle of your vision. Instead of straining or trying to focus hard on a small target in front of you… let go and allow yourself to notice the bigger picture and notice what’s around you…

So how you do this, is look at a point directly in front of you and then soften your gaze and allow yourself to notice the outter edges of your vision without trying. See, if you are trying to focus, that’s not the way to do it. Imagine the circle or target in front of you suddenly begins to expand and expand and expand and expand until it fills up the room or is as large as the room to your left, right, front and back… now this will expand your mind and open up your mind so you can Receive what someone is saying and listen to understand. Do you know what this is called?

It’s called Having an Open Mind!
Yes, this is literally how you open up your mind.
I personally find it hilarious when people talk about how open minded they are, when they are literally totally focused, narrow vision and in their closed mind, literally. You know what I say to these people when they say or talk about how people need to be more open minded? hahaha…

I say, “SHOW ME!!!” hahahaha… And then they will get all confused and lost and say, “SHOW YOU WHAT?” hahahahaha… Hilarious…

Don’t you love it when people talk about Listening skills and How others need to be more Open minded and yet they have no clue what that actually means or how to do it? hahahaha… So just say to them, “SHOW ME!”

And if they get more linear, focused, you know they are close minded. Oh, linear is when you narrow your vision and your pupils constrict and get smaller and also closer together like you are aiming a target. That’s what we call Closed minded!

So, to finish this off, you Go into Peripheral Vision and then you Go Internal into what’s called Internal Awareness. What does that mean and how do you do it?

As you are in peripheral vision, you pay attention to your feelings inside your body. So you literally put your awareness internal on your chest, lungs and back and expand that to your entire gut area and then all the way down your legs into your feet, feeling your entire body.

This my friends is your radar system and will communicate massive, massive amounts of information to you about what someone’s body language, tonality, tempo and rhythm are saying to you. Yes, people we massively communicate with body language as well as with the tone we use. This is Internal Awareness.

And this is what we call Listening Skills!

So, before you read this article, tell me the truth, did you have a clue what it truly means to have listening skills and know how to listen to understand someone?

I am going to guess you had no clue!

So now, don’t be one of those people who talk about Listening skills and about being open minded.

Instead, Go do it now!!! And then once you are there, ask them, “SHOW ME!!!” hahahahaha….

Have a great day everyone!

I Love you all. May your new found listening skills change your life! And give you all the social power and Influencing power you desire now don’t you? hehe…

YOUR LOVE AND RELATIONSHIP COMMUNICATION AND INFLUENCE COACH

Remember, Go Read Part II

MIKE KOLLIN 415 456 8558

Give me a call if you have any questions. Better yet, come to an actual training on this set of skills and watch the rest of your life massively transform into more power, more creativity and more satisfaction in every area of life, love and relationships. Oh and Business too!!! This works Powerfully and gives you the Edge in Sales and marketing!!!

“Wow, Sooooooo Awesome!!!

I just received a message tonight from a great guy, my client, who just got engaged! Yes, the same guy who gave me a testimonial titled “Dateless and Desperate Virgin.”

Tonight, I was walking down the sidewalk at the mall in San Rafael, Ca. and I bumped into a client of mine from a little over a year ago or so.

Now here is a great, great, great guy who is above average in looks, friendly, great smile, out going, social and yet couldn’t meet a girl for the life of him and yet had a great job, educated, intelligent and has his own place, etc.

I met Allen when I was with a Client in a Starbucks Coffee shop over a year ago, maybe more. As we talked, Allen was your typical male, intelligent, good hearted guy, caring and had drive, ambition and direction and was a genuinely good person. Yet he just couldn’t get a girlfriend let alone sex or a long term relationship.

Allen went through what a lot of guys went through. He would meet a girl, go on a date, open the doors, pay for gas, toll, dinner, movies, buy her flowers and was extremely Romantic. Except for 1 thing. This is not true Romance to women at all. And that’s why Allen like all Nice guys just couldn’t get passed the first date let alone a kiss.

Yes, most guys think the nicer they are, the more they pay for things, buy flowers, candy, dinner, drinks, movies, etc. the more likely she is going to like him and eventually get into a relationship with him and make love to him!

I am here to wake you up, just like I did Allen, because nothing, and I mean nothing could be further from the truth! Allen did exactly what all guys think and do. They think they can pay for her love or her sex! Well, that may have been true in the Caveman Days up until around 1950 or 1960′s. But since then, women have truly found their financial and emotional independence. And trading sex for dinner or gifts is not what makes a woman fall in Love with you!!!!

The old ways are gone guys! Sorry! But women want more! But, But, more of what? What? More money, more houses, more diamonds? If that were true, then Kobey Bryant the world famous basketball player who’s wife just took 3 of his mansions in L.A. and $75 million, yes, $75 Million, would still be Happily and I mean Happily married if he knew what the answer was! NO! See, the reason why women will destroy a man is because she thinks you are being lazy and hurting her by denying her Love! And yet, you have done everything and I mean everything in your power to love her to express your love in the deepest, most meaningful ways that was viciously rejected by her every single damn time!!!!

So what’s going on? As my father said to me, “NO matter what I do, it hurts her, she gets angry and cries every time I try to love her!” “Why did God make men and women so different that when a man tries to Love a women it only hurts her and makes her get angry and viciously attack you?????”

I was 21 the first time I saw my dad cry as he cried this out to me with tears running down his face.

I wish I could go back and teach my father “The Answer!” Because now I have the answer and it is amazing. Most importantly it works and can teach a man how to meet the woman of his dreams and save his marriage!

See, men desperately try to love the woman of his dreams with all his heart and all his soul, but unfortunately he does it in the male way! And the male form of expressing love actually hurts women and leaves women feeling desperately lost, and desperately empty emotionally. And the entire reason she married you and was with you, is because women desperately need to feel “Whole and complete with you emotionally!” And it’s your job to do this! Unfortunately mother nature played a cruel trick on men and women!

Mother nature hid this form of communication and expression of Love from the male brain!

The way women receive love is completely the opposite of the way men express their love and or approach love, which over time alienates women in relationships.

Men work hard and make as much money as possible so they can pay for nice things for her. Yet, women tell men all the time, it’s not about money! And you know what, this is the most powerful truth you can ever realize and learn now! See, men are visual and external, which basically means what men value is not what women value on a deep, deep, deeply held and emotionally meaningful level. And that is what it’s all about: Meaningfulness!

See, men highly value things, gold, jewelery, and external things! But, I guarantee you that there is a way to express your love to a woman without spending a dime! And she will will hold on to that expression of love for the rest of her life over a Diamond ring or expensive car.

So, what is “The Answer?”

Answer: LOVE and Deeper Emotionally fulfilling connections through this newer form of communicating!

Well, what is this communication I am talking about? I mean all of us guys have heard that women yammer and yammer and yammer about communication, communication, over and over and over and we’re sick and tired of it!!! But wait… it’s not what you think!

No, this is not Proper communication or spelling correctly, proper English, as you may have notice, for a communication expert, I seriously don’t give a rats ass about proper spelling or little things like that. I am more focused on the bigger picture, the more meaningful and emotional fulfilling purpose in my writing so it will change your life!

What women are talking about when they say communication, is Right brain, The “Internal, mentally stimulating and emotionally fulfilling language of love that fills her heart with all the Love in the Universe! And yes, this is a hidden language to the Male Brain. Men are completely oblivious to this. If they weren’t, they would be speaking it all day and night long, receiving all the love, sex, pleasure, appreciation and respect in the world from women!

So what is the damn ANSWER? Communicating in the right brains, internal, mentally stimulating and emotionally fulfilling language of love! Not proper, black and white boring English! Hell no!!!

And no, I did not say be MR. Emotional and cry at movies! Hell no! This is one of the first things I had to teach to Allen. I said, “Damn it man!!!” “You have to be the Caveman again! You have to take charge, lead and be demanding!” “Let her know that you have all of the details taken care of so she doesn’t have to worry any more, so she can slip back into being the feminine women she naturally is and wants to be when she is with you. Because that’s why she chose to be with you!”

So stop your crying and stop your whining! The last thing she needs is another little boy or child to take care of, like she doesn’t have enough to do already!

See, most men, when they hear women say they want men to express their emotions, think women are saying they want men to cry or whine or something like that. No! No! No! What she really is saying is she needs, wants and desires for you to express your feelings in the “Internal Language” because women can not understand, relate to or even notice the male expression of emotions when he expresses emotions in the Male Language. Yes! We literally are speaking 2 completely different hidden languages and we don’t understand each other.

So what is the final “ANSWER?”

Learn how to express your feelings in the Female Language. No, that does not mean be Mr. Emotional Cry baby! It simply means learn how to speak her language and express yourself in a way that she can understand and relate to so she can begin to feel close to you again! Women literally can’t understand anything that men say in the male language.

The Answer is that Men are hard wired to express their love Visually by buying her things, paying for dinner, gifts, flowers, candy, etc. etc. etc. Unfortunately this is not the way women receive love!

Women receive Love and Emotional fulfillment through communication! That’s right, the ever forbidden/hidden right brain language that mother nature has hid from the male brain. But, the Good News is that the male brain can learn how to speak this and understand this ever powerful language of love which also gives men greater awareness and greater social power and social influence!

So, as you can see, Allen has learned how to speak this language of love and also the language that women simply understand in day to day conversations and communication also. Allen has also learned to say “no” and have boundaries and not let her take advantage of him and jerk him around. See, it really is all about being the Caveman who takes what he wants and goes after his dreams and desires and refuses to let any woman take him off course! Not even his wife! Women massively disrespect any guy who lets his wife or girlfriend take him off course from his dreams and or goals. If she can pull you off track, then how in the hell can you survive out in the real world/jungle where there are much more powerful men who can manipulate you and take you off course?

Learning how to see things from a females perspective and learning how to read her hidden body language and verbal communication will put all the power in your hands in a way that she can respect, understand and deeply love you for!!!

Again, “Congratulations Allen”.

If you don’t know the key secrets to meeting girls online, then you are just wasting your time, a lot of time! See, by nature, girls like to chit chat and talk a lot! The reason is, #1 it helps them to feel comfortable with you by getting to know you! The other reason is, #2 Women actually get turned on sexually if you know how to communicate in a romantic or sensual way. But, for now, I will teach you some easier tips for actually attracting and meeting women online so you are not one of those guys who spends hours and hours doing nothing but sending messages and talking back and forth forever.

Now, remember, women by nature are completely different from men and once you start to see this side of women, then the door of opportunity will begin to open. So, #1 you need to understand basic female psychology.

How he met the girl of his dreams!

Secret #1 This Secret is your profile pictures. Now most sites like Plenty of Fish will let you use more than 1 picture. Now, this one picture I am going to tell you about, women absolutely love and can’t get enough of, and it will surprise you.

This picture is a picture of you sleeping. Yep, that’s right. It makes women’s hearts melt when they see a picture of you sleeping. It shows your more gentle, more vulnerable side and opens her up to getting to know you better. Because she see’s you more as a human with frailties and vulnerabilities vs. one big, overbearing caveman all the time!

This one is simple, effective and simply, it works. So get that sleeping beauty picture up now!

Now, Secret #2 Will seem completely counter intuitive to all the other experts. And maybe to you also. See, there is a powerful trigger in the females mating system that triggers her to want to have sex with you and mate with you! And I call that the cat and mouse game. It’s where you act or play hard to get. See, if you just throw yourself at women, they will run away. In other words, if you buy her flowers, chocolates, pay for dinner, and act serious and desperate all the time, it is a major, major turn off!

Now the cat and mouse game is literally just like the cat chasing the mouse. Have you ever watched a cat sneak up on an unaware mouse? The cat is all excited and pumped up and poised for the kill. Then all of a sudden when the mouse last expects it, the Cat pounces onto the mouse and goes in for the kill. Yes, guy women love, love, love the chase. If you dont’ believe me, pull up some old shows about dating and relationships where women say the man shouldn’t be so easy, because women love the chase.

I just went to a dating and relationship workshop last month in San Francisco where one of the main speakers said, “It’s a total turn on when the girl has to work for it, when she has to pull it out of him and get him interested.” She also said, “Even if you are turned on and like her, don’t let her know it, because it’s much more erotic when a girl has to arouse you!” So damn it guys, don’t be so damn eager! Back off, let her come to you, play hard to get and stop buying her stuff!

Now, how does this apply to online dating! Now, here’s the counter intuitive part that the experts will disagree with me. But then again, what do they know? They are experts at marketing and writing books. I am an expert at teaching you how to meet girls and get laid. Now watch this.

Most of the experts will tell you to click the “Long Term” button on the site because that’s what women want is long term relationships. Yes, that is true. But, if they don’t earn it, if there is not a chase, in fact a major chase, then she wont’ value you and will not be attracted to you! See, she has to chase you and feel like she has won you over and beat all the other girls in the competition for you!

So, if you are not out there dating other girls, she is not interested at all. Trust me on this one. If you don’t believe me, try it, See what happens! And judge by the results on the amount of girls who respond. That’s what I always say, “Pay attention to what works, results!”

Now specifically for Plenty of Fish, in the first one, in the box “For”, put “Dating”. Then in the “Intent” section put “Looking for a relationship”.

This does a few things. #1 You are a chase, she has to chase you and capture you and win you over, which is a huge turn on for women. #2 When you put “Looking for a relationship”, it leaves it open to date you, be in a relationship and also a possible long term relationship. In other words, this way she can go through all the steps to getting into a long term relationship with you, because dating is not long term and being in a relationship in the early stages, to a women, is not considered long term. It’s an in between stage where she can see what it’s like to be in a long term relationship with you. This is like a medium trial period.

On that note, I do agree, never, ever put “intimate encounters” or “Hang out”, because those are both major turn offs!

Secret #3 The best place to meet women, is actually in person at coffee shops or cafe’s or malls where they are shopping and happy or other local place. But, we are talking online here. So, the best place to meet women, is in the forums. And that’s where all the women are and zero guys or very little.

Now specifically, I am talking the forums for specifically for dating questions. This is a gold mine. These women are serious about dating and want to find a quality guy and actually date. A lot of girls online are there because they are bored and have zero intention to meet you or anyone. Remember, women love to talk, gab and chat!

Now, all you have to do is send them a message and start up a conversation. You are much more likely to be taken seriously here than in online dating sites.

Secret #4 Do not send women, a rose or gift on these sites. Plenty of fish has this thing where you earn points and get a flower or 2 per month and you get to pick the special girl to receive it and you send it to her. “DON’T!” Why? Because it destroys the chase. It tells her you have already fallen for her and love her! Thus there is no game and no chase so she moves on and gets bored with you.

Secret #5  Again, this one may go against most of the experts advice. I say, “Do not fill out Match information. Personally, I have never, ever done this since the first time. #1 It takes forever. #2 Many women take these things seriously and if you are not a match, they will not even respond let alone send your a message. #3 Again, it destroys the Cat and Mouse game and kills the thrill of the chase.

Now, I personally find that much more women respond when you do these 5 things. But, you have to be congruent. You can’t put up dating to create the chase and then respond right away and send messages that say you are totally into her and she’s so hot and beautiful and you want to buy dinner! NO! NO! NO! Nothing says desperation than this! Sheesh!

Instead, play aloof. What you should do, is literally become like a girl. Take a step back and say, “Well, who are you?” “How do I know you are not a psycho?” “Are you cool?” “Are you a fun person?” “WHat makes you a fun person?” “Are you playful?” “Are you naturally affectionate and do you have a sweet personality or cute, etc. etc.

See, #1 You need to stop for a second and ask yourself what you like! I mean seriously, if you could date any girl that you like, what would she be like. Would she be cute? Would she be Beautiful or Exotic? Do you like girls with a big chest or petite, tiny girls? Would she have a serious personality? Would she be an intellectual or more on the cute personality side?

I guess what I am saying, is that you need to start having boundaries and date the kind of women you like and are attracted to. Nothing makes a guy more attractive than a guy who has boundaries and chooses the women he likes.

So when you get online, have that attitude of, “Hey, I dont’ know you!” “I don’t know if you are a good person or a nut job!” “I need to get to know you!” With this overall attitude, you are actually coming from a place of genuineness instead of just trying to get laid. And it triggers her mating system via the Cat and Mouse game. Trust me, if you connect with a girl who actually fits your personality and what you like in a girl mentally, emotionally and physically, you both are more likely to have a much better time than if you are just looking to get laid and tell her what she wants to hear. And this will attract  more women to you than you could imagine!

Now at night, at clubs or parties, etc., girls defense shields are up big, big time, because girls know or at least believe that’s all guys want at night or clubs, etc.

Now there is some or a lot of truth to the fact that some guys or a percentage of guys are out for sex and sex only! But I will tell you ladies, that that percentage is about 10% of the population of men. These are the extreme left brain guys who are not as connected to their feelings and just want what they want! Unfortunately these are also the guys because of their selfishness that women tend to date and have sex with, because your mating system wants to conquer him because a selfish caveman is a caveman that can feed himself and his offspring. The nice caveman is to wimpy or weak to survive in the big bad world.

Ok, enough of that for now!

Now, here’s the deal guys, during the day, women find it much more appropriate to meet guys and are much more comfortable meeting guys during the day as long as you are not doing the typical creepo nice guy routine which most guys do because they think women like it.

Take my course and I will show you what I mean and how not to do the male creepo technique! hahahaha…

Ok, so #1 Night game is extremely hard and difficult for most guys simply because these girls have an untrue belief that all guys or meeting a guy at a club is not worth while because all men want at clubs is sex.

Yet she can meet the same guy, “You”, at a cafe or gas station or grocery store or wherever and suddenly see you as relationship material. Now, do I think this is logical or real? Absolutely not! Why? Because you are the exact same guy at the night club as you are during the day at the cafe, yet she believes you to be dating and relationship material if she meets you in the day at a coffee house or book store, etc.

#2 So, if you want to date and meet women easier, then do it at a cafe and preferably during the daytime! Much, much easier!

#3 Now, this is what this article is really about right here!

I was at the coffee shop yesterday reading a book called the 4 hour work week. I highly recommend it by the way. Now, I Looked up and there was a group of 3 really beautiful young girls, about 20 to about 26 max. And they were laughing, playing around and having a good time!

AND THIS IS WHAT GUYS ARE MISSING BIG TIME!!!

So, what’s my point here?

Well, most guys try to have game all the time! And to be honest, it’s completely off the mark. Don’t be cool or have game or whatever! That’s a freaking joke!

See, what I am getting to, is that all girls want to do is be happy and have fun when they are not at work or other responsibilities.

What I am trying to say, is go back up a few paragraphs and look at those 3 beautiful girls laughing, playing games and having fun! Let me spell it out for you!

T-H-A-T’S W-H-A-T THEY WANT!!!

Yes, women/girls love to flirt, have fun and play games! Why? Why? Why?

Because it’s fun! Get it??? See, if you try to be so freaking serious and all about sex and getting into a relationship, you bore her to death!

To a girl or women, being in a relationship should be happy and fun where 2 people can laugh and goof around and not be so serious!

So here’s the really, really cool news!

ALL THE PRESSURE IS OFF!!!!

Forget sex! Forget getting her numbers! Forget asking her out! And for god sakes, forget about relationships and all that crazy stuff! hehe…

That’s my secret! hahahahaha…

Guys are so simply amazed at how I meet girls and pick up on them! They simply don’t get it! How do I do it? hahahahaha…

I DON’T!!! That’s how!!! I am totally and completely serious…

So forget all that pickup artist stuff and seduction and trickery and for god’s sake, please, please, please forget about those stupid, fake lines! Oh GAWD those are totally awful!!!

You want to learn how to meet girls?

#1 Go out there and simply watch! Yes, I still do it to this day and I am amazed at how I missed the simplicity of meeting girls. All they are doing is having fun and goofing around and being playful.

So what do most guys do???

“HI THERE!” “I’M MR. SERIOUS AND I AM GOING TO TRY TO IMPRESS YOU WITH MY MONEY, CAR, MUSCLES OR EVEN HOW GREAT MY JOKES ARE!!!”

#1 Oh guys, guys, guys… throw all that serious stuff out the window and get over yourselves already!!!

#2 And do not, do not, do not, do not try to impress her because that shows her how much of an idiot you are!!! And it puts you into your serious left brain…

Look, I was a champion boxer, kickboxer, fighter, and racer! I never, ever tell this to women! EVER!!! Because women hate that shit!

They usually find out through meeting someone who knows me months later by accident if my friend or family member brings it up!

My point, do not brag or impress her. Just don’t do it.

And then guess what? It takes all the pressure off of you to impress her and then you can just relax, have fun nad enjoy yourself…

See, most guys try to be perfect!!! Women absolutely hate this. Why? Because it puts you into your left, logical brain and that is not attractive to women at all. For now, simply relax and enjoy meeting her or them.

Ok, so, #1 Do not impress.
#2 Do not be perfect or you will drive her nuts.
#3 Do not be Serious at all or Mr. Logical.

Now here’s what you can do and should do:

#1 Go to your local coffee shop where women are loose, relaxed and chatty. Now a library may not be a good place because most people there are A. quiet and B. are usually there for a purpose. So don’t’ try to meet women when they are on task.

Ok, so now, go to coffee shops or clubs or wherever women congregate and socialize. And simply watch, listen and learn. Do not try to meet or start up conversations. Just watch them and notice how playful and non serious they are. They are having fun. This is the #1 most important thing guys can learn, to simply loosen up and have some freaking fun already!

#2 When you meet girls, do not, do not, do not try to pick up on them. Why? Because this takes all the pressure off of you. Just simply learn how to have conversations with women without pressuring the situation.

*** That’s how guys blow it! The cause pressure and try to force or control the situation, all of which tightens her up and causes her to want to run and get the hell away from you!

Go back up and re watch what the girls are doing when they are socializing! They are loose not tight! They are relaxed, not perfect. They are having fun, not being serious. They are enjoying themselves in a loose, open and relaxed manner, not in a serious competition to see who’s right or wrong or who is in charge, blah, blah, blah!!!

Most guys truly believe if they can impress her or control her or be Mr. Serious that they will imrpess her and I am telling you, this is soooooooo far from the truth it’s not even funny!

So, here’s my magic secret! Here’s how I meet a lot of girls. I don’t even try to meet girls. Sure, I will engage in a conversation if a girl starts chatting with me. And sure, I will put myself into situations where women can be close to me, ie. like sit next to them or close at a coffee shop or club. And when she asks me a question, I look over my shoulder and casually respond. Notice, casually. Not “Oh HI, you are a Goddess and you are so freaking amazing, OMG… you are talking to me… OH, well now let me impress you now!”

I really have a laid back, I don’t care attitude. If the conversations takes off, great! If not, I will turn right back around and go back to reading or whatever I am doing.

See, it’s ok if a conversation doesn’t work. And sometimes it doesn’t. And by allowing that to be an option, suddenly you open up a ton more possibilities with women, because you don’t’ care if you don’t have a perfect conversation or a conversation with her at all.

See, by doing this, suddenly the pressure is completely gone and that is My Secret!!!

JUST GO WITH THE FLOW!!! – ALLOW!!!

All I do is allow conversations to happen naturally and by doing this, I meet all the women in the world and make a lot of friends. Trust me, women are much more entertaining than guys, that’s for sure!!! hahahaha… Ask any girl or lady and she will agree!

So to learn how to Let Go, Allow and Go with the Flow, give us a call right here 415 456 8558 and take 1 of our up and coming seminars!

It’s the greatest, funnest thing you will ever do!

Not to mention you will gain more social power than you ever dreamed of! The secrets to your life, happiness and success with women, life and business are all right here.

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Mike Kollin San Rafael, California, Napa, San Francisco

In the winter, they gain a little cushion weight because they can cover it up with clothing. And in the spring, they start to watch their diet, go to the gym to lose some weight for bikini season in the sun! It’s true. Another truth is the highest percentage of women tend to get wandering eyes in the late spring/summer or break up with their other half then. Sorry guys, but it’s true.

But,Right now, the fall/winter is when girls get into relationships. And if you notice, right now, online women are really responding because they are looking for a mate for the winter!

The cold wintery seasons make women want to bed down and find a mate.

#2 Sundays are the night that women most respond to and post ads on dating lines. For some reason, I have noticed that Sunday is the day that most women tend to be more into meeting, and responding to online ads, placing ads onto online dating sites, etc. etc. etc.

So now that we are nearing Christmas and New Years, get out there and start mingling and just talking to women.

Go online, respond to ads, post ads, go to coffee shops, start chatting it up with women. All you have to do now is simply start up a conversation and women will take it from there.

Seriously, right now is the prime season to meet women because women are so much more open to meeting guys, being more friendly and social and getting into relationships…

Do not let another day or week go by!

Either A. Get out there right now and be very proactive in meeting women or B. Take my course if you are to shy or are not sure how to open conversations naturally! Because that’s my specialty!

So get out there and make it happen! And have fun! Fun, Fun, Fun! Women love guys who are easy going, cheerful, loose and fun!

No, not the overly forceful funny guy who can’t shut up and laughs to much or too loud, but the natural guy who is easy to get along with and enjoy herself with!

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Now there are a lot of courses out there recently teaching men how to pick up on women and get laid fast.

Well, the difference in my course and my personality, is that I am all about helping people and Love!

I spent the first 12 to 15 years of my life out of high school studying psychology, personal development, hypnotherapy, Time Line Therapy and energy healing among other things on how to help myself and other become happier and more whole and complete. To be able to let go of their problems or to heal their emotional wounds.

This course is about opening men’s eyes up to what it is that women truly want that make women deeply happy and will be deeply grateful if you just learn how to communicate and approach in these ways…

For example: Most men are very direct with their communication and language. In fact it’s called the left brain, male, direct, linear, external language and to women it is very intrusive and can be rude! And women have a really hard time relating to it and understanding it.

Not only are men intrusive verbally, but when a man or single guy approaches a girl in public, he doesn’t realize, that from her perspective, you are a lot stronger and a total stranger, thus a potential danger to her.

And when you approach her in your logical, left brain in that external linear way, ie lean forward, lock onto her with an intense look in your eyes, it scares the crap out of her. And that’s why most guys are afraid to approach women, because when men appraoch in the male way, it scares girls/women and then women get defensive and go into protection mode, and may run off, which is embarrassing to him or you or she may be rude or even cut you down or yell at you or whatever! And, it’s all done out of you scaring her, but you didnt’ realize it, because men/you walk around in this linear attack mode all the time, but have no clue you are doing it.

See, when I teach men how to go into peripheral vision and access their right brain, suddenly they are very clear and aware how intense this can be for a girl or anyone for that matter!

Suddenly, after only a few sessions, he learns how to approach a girl in a way that allows her to have her own physical space, simply be leaning back an inch or 2 or maybe just respecting her space and standing neutral and not leaning forward. Get it?

And, and, and… do not go into linear male vision, because no matter how far away you stand, even if you are standing across the room and staring at her in linear mode, this will scare the living bajesus out of her! hahaha…

See guys, what I am hinting at or actually being very direct about, is the naturual, normal way that men approach women, express their love and emotions to women, usually A. Scares the crap out of women or B. confuses women, because we men and women are literally speaking 2 completely different languages, or C. pushes women away…

I have literally “Cracked the Female Code”!!! It can save your marriage or if you are single, teach you how to make a girl feel comfortable and want to talk to you!

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And along the way, I realized there is a better way for single guys to meet women, in a way that women actually like and enjoy. And it also helps guys to develop social self esteem in public.

See,